My beloved wardrobe represents me - ¿Should I consider another relationship? | Mi querido armario me representa. ¿Debería plantearme otra relación? LOH #248

By cautiva-30 on 7/30/2025

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Greetings friends of the #LadiesofHive community, with the edition you bring us this week, where you invite us to reflect with one of the questions from our esteemed @ifarmgirl, here is my participation:

1. What is the predominant color in your closet? Was it a conscious choice or did it just become that over time? Feel free to give us a sneak peek!

I think that having a quality closet or closet is achieved over time, for me the secret is not to have a lot of brand name clothes, but fundamental pieces and versatile colors that multiply the possibilities of combination with what I have.

For me, black and white are indispensable, those colors will always be in my cherished closet, because everything I keep there represents me.

When I can look in my closet for different combinations, creating my own style and according to my personality, it is very beautiful to know how to select my clothes to look elegant, it really does not cost much, as well as a good tip is to combine colors and accessories.

In particular, after retiring, what I wear the most are sport shoes, although I have taken the risk of mixing casual clothes with more elegant ones, to create a casual style.

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For example a mix without fear would be a black jeans with a gray satin blouse. But what predominates most in my daily use are blues jeans pants and if different colors in blouses in pink, beige, white, black, etc.

As well as once a year, I try to invest in a basic garment: a coat or a blue jeans jacket, I also try not to skimp on the quality of bags and shoes, because I think they are what build or destroy our image.

Clothes are the external projection of our personality, it is the perfect instrument to show others how we are and according to our age, I think each of us know where we are going and we dress for every occasion, good taste in choosing colors is what will always make us elegant and especially wear what makes me feel comfortable.

Many women are addicted to a certain color of clothes, and that is understandable, but I think that with the type of haircut, makeup and some accessories we can look prettier.

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2. Would you consider remarrying or having another partner if you are widowed at 71? Why yes or why no?

I think that at that age I would be in that wonderful stage of the fullness of maturity, because it is when I can feel more confident about what I have done and what I do at that time.

So if at that age I don't have a partner, I don't need to remarry or consider starting a new relationship with someone who was not in my life before, because I think it is the time shared that influences building relationships.

And for me the most important thing is to reach that mature stage that is all that matters in life, to know how to accept the inevitability of time, because I believe that maturity is beautiful if I use it to my advantage, with the years and to know that it is not only biological age, but a blooming age, rich in merits and my own experiences, full of wisdom.

And to live every day in harmony with all the people around me is the greatest privilege, because I can feel useful and know that I have learned to live aging with dignity and a lot of love for myself and for others.

For example, at that age, it is beautiful to feel that many people need me, if I would be a grandmother, I would like to be pamperer with my grandchildren, because if God keeps me alive and healthy, I would continue to look at life with optimism.

I believe that with faith in our Creator at that age I can enjoy life, with a positive attitude and a good sense of humor.

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Saludos amigos de la comunidad #LadiesofHive, con la edición que nos traen esta semana, donde nos invitan a reflexionar con una de las preguntas de nuestra estimada @ifarmgirl, a continuación les presento mi participación:

1. ¿Cuál es el color que predomina en tu armario? ¿Fue una elección consciente o simplemente se convirtió en eso con el tiempo? ¡No dudes en darnos un adelanto!

Pienso que tener un armario o guardarropa de calidad se consigue con el tiempo, para mí el secreto no está en tener gran cantidad de ropa de marca, sino piezas fundamentales y colores versátiles, que multipliquen las posibilidades de combinación con lo que tengo.

Para mí es indispensable el negro y el blanco, esos colores siempre estarán en mi apreciado armario, porque cada cosa que guardo allí me representa.

Cuando puedo buscar en mi armario combinaciones diferentes, crear así mi propio estilo y de acuerdo a mi personalidad, pues es muy hermoso saber seleccionar mis prendas de vestir para lucir elegante, en verdad no cuesta tanto, así como un buen tip es combinar los colores y los accesorios.

En particular, después de salir jubilada lo que más uso son zapatos deportivos, aunque me he arriesgado a mezclar la ropa de sport con la más elegante, para crear un estilo casual.

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Por ejemplo una mezcla sin miedo sería un pantalón jean negro con una blusa gris satinada. Pero lo que más predomina en mi uso diario son los pantalones de blues jean y si colores diferentes en blusas de color rosado, beige, blanco, negro, etc.

Así como también una vez al año, procuro invertir en una prenda básica: un abrigo o una chaqueta de blue jean, también trato de no escatimar en la calidad de los bolsos y zapatos, porque creo que son lo que construyen o destruyen nuestra imagen.

La ropa es la proyección externa de nuestra personalidad, es el instrumento perfecto para mostrar a los demás cómo somos y de acuerdo o a nuestra edad, creo que cada una de nosotras sabemos para donde vamos y nos vestimos para cada ocasión, el buen gusto en elegir los colores es lo que siempre nos hará elegante y en especial llevar lo que me hace sentir cómoda.

Muchas mujeres somos adictas a determinado color de ropa, y eso es comprensible, pero creo que con el tipo de corte de pelo, el maquillaje y algunos accesorios podemos vernos más lindas.

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2. ¿Considerarías volver a casarte o tener otra pareja si eres viudo/a a los 71 años? ¿Por qué sí o por qué no?

Pienso que a esa edad estaría en esa etapa maravillosa de la plenitud de la madurez, pues es cuando más segura me puedo llegar a sentir de lo que he hecho y de lo que haga en ese tiempo.

Entonces si a esa edad no tengo pareja, no necesito volver a casarme o considerar iniciar una nueva relación con quien no estuvo en mi vida anteriormente, porque pienso que es el tiempo compartido el que influye en construir las relaciones.

Y para mí lo más importante es llegar esa etapa madura que es todo lo que importa en la vida, saber aceptar lo inevitable que es el tiempo, porque creo que la madurez es bella si la uso a mi favor, con los años y saber que no sólo es edad biológica, sino edad florecida, rica en méritos y experiencias propias, llenas de sabiduría.

Y vivir cada día en armonía con todas las personas que me rodean, es el más grande privilegio, porque puedo sentirme útil y saber que he aprendido a vivir envejeciendo con dignidad y muchísimo amor por mí misma y por los demás.

Por ejemplo a esa edad, es hermoso sentir que muchas personas necesitan de mi, si ya sería abuela, me gustaría ser consentidora con mi nietos, porque si Dios me tiene con vida y salud, seguiría mirando la vida con optimismo.

Me gustaría enfocarme en ser una persona que todavía me sienta activa, cuidando de mi salud, física y mental, de mi bienestar integral, con la alimentación sana, el descanso y el sueño.

Creo que con fe en nuestro creador a esa edad puedo disfrutar de la vida, con actitud positiva y un buen sentido del humor.

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una excelente reflexión y perspectiva de vida

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cautiva-30's avatar @cautiva-30 7/30/2025

Thank you very much @hispapro.amb

woofie's avatar @woofie 7/31/2025

First of all, you look amazing! And I agree that black and white is a must because they are versatile and go well with everything.

Wonderful picture of yourself in age 71. I wish that you will age well and healthy. Cheers!

!LADY

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cautiva-30's avatar @cautiva-30 7/31/2025

That's right, black and white in the closet are a must to combine with any color, Thank you very much for your good wishes, for your visit and comment, ! LADY ! PIZZA

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cautiva-30's avatar @cautiva-30 7/31/2025

Thank you @ladiesofhive 🤗

elizabethbit's avatar @elizabethbit 7/31/2025

Sounds like sage advice for anyone needing help with building their wardrobe! It's good to have variety if one is comfortable with it.

I get what you are saying about marrying at age 71. You have said it all perfectly! Thank you for sharing on both questions; take care and have a lovely day!🤗💜🌹 !LADY

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cautiva-30's avatar @cautiva-30 7/31/2025

So it is, I believe that relationships are built over time and allows us to know the different facets of each person, also have a nice day, get my hug from this corner of the planet 🤗 !LADY !PIZZA

elizabethbit's avatar @elizabethbit 8/1/2025

Thank you @cautiva-30! A hug from my neck of the woods to you as well!🤗💜🌹 !LUV !HOPE

ifarmgirl's avatar @ifarmgirl 7/31/2025

It's nice that you have your own style that suits your personality. I love how you mix and match your jeans with blouses and even denim jackets.

Aging gracefully and living harmoniously with everyone around you is a beautiful way to live a full life in your 70s. And your grandkids are fortunate to be pampered by you :)

!LADY

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cautiva-30's avatar @cautiva-30 7/31/2025

Siii, for a long time I wore heels, now I love to combine clothes with sports and casual shoes, I'm glad you like it That's right, it would be a privilege if I would already be in the fullness of maturity, to enjoy the loved ones Thank you very much for your visit and touching comment, have a nice day, !LADY !PIZZA

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moyosoluwa's avatar @moyosoluwa 7/31/2025

Black and white are the top important colors because they go well with everything and in a way white has a way of making someone look expensive. You look really good in them.

cautiva-30's avatar @cautiva-30 7/31/2025

That's right, they are colours that should not be missing in our wardrobe, I agree with you, white makes it look expensive Thank you very much for your visit and comment, !LADY !PIZZA

sacra97's avatar @sacra97 8/1/2025

También me quede con los zapatos bajitos en especial los deportivos, para poder moverme mejor y tener seguridad en mis pasos, no quiero tropezarme. Como dices no hace falta ropa de marca para sentirnos bien con lo que tenemos en nuestro armario. Apegarse a un color no es bueno, pero a muchas nos gusta ciertas tendencias en color.

Tampoco me volvería a casar aunque uno nunca sabe que habrá en el futuro. Un abrazo.

I also chose low-top shoes, especially sneakers, so I could move more easily and feel confident in my steps. I don't want to trip. As you say, you don't need designer clothes to feel good about what you have in your wardrobe. Sticking to one color isn't good, but many of us like certain color trends.

I also wouldn't get married again, although you never know what the future holds. Hugs.

cautiva-30's avatar @cautiva-30 8/2/2025

That's right, they are stages that we assume and require some change of style, and yes, we do not know what the future holds, hopefully it will be of great blessings, thank you very much for your visit and comment, also a big hug, !LADY !PIZZA

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wanderelle's avatar @wanderelle 8/2/2025

Your approach to a quality wardrobe is smart and elegant 💖 Prioritizing self-confidence at 71 and enjoying family rather than seeking a new relationship is truly inspiring ✨

cautiva-30's avatar @cautiva-30 8/2/2025

I'm glad you like the publication, thank you very much for your visit and kind comment, !LADY !PIZZA