Greetings ladies, as every week we're still here to see the exciting questions you ask us to answer. Today we have the following:
Saludos ladies, como todas las semanas seguimos aquí activos para ver las emocionantes preguntas que nos plantean a responder, hoy tenemos las siguientes:
What is the most dominant color in your wardrobe/closet? Was it a conscious choice, or did it just turn out that way over time? Feel free to give us a sneak peek!
I'd say it's the color black, followed by other colors like white and beige. The rest are a minority. Yes, it's been conscious, but now I've tried to add more colors to my wardrobe. In fact, I realized that black depends on the shape of the garment, and the shade of black might not make me look as good as I imagined. Rather, a lighter but neutral color makes me look much more awake. I've certainly used black for versatility, but I do want to gradually make more room for color.
¿Cuál es el color que predomina en tu armario? ¿Fue una elección consciente o simplemente se convirtió en eso con el tiempo? ¡No dudes en darnos un pequeño vistazo!
Yo diría que es el color negro y lo siguen luego de eso otros colores como el blanco y el beige, lo demás son minoría. Sí ha sido consciente pero ahora he tratado de añadir más colores a mi guardaropa, de hecho me di cuenta que el negro depende de la forma de la prenda y la tonalidad de negro puede que no me haga lucir tan bien cómo imaginaba, mas bien un color más claro pero neutro me hace ver mucho más despierta. Ciertamente he usado el negro por versatilidad pero sí quiero ir poco a poco cediendo más espacio para el color.
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Would you consider remarrying or having another partner if you are a 71-year-old widow/widower? Why or why not?
Honestly, I don't know if I'll be alive by that age. We know the present, but not the future. But considering I were already in that scenario, I probably wouldn't have another partner. It's okay to be alone for a while. Coming from my place, it means a lot because, even though I love being alone and doing things alone, when I fall in love with someone, I usually voluntarily give up that freedom. Without realizing it, I become a prisoner of my own feelings, and my body becomes dependent on those feelings. I lose my autonomy, and I don't know why I am like this. I really give it my all. I still haven't learned to be different, which I still have yet to learn, since that's not healthy at all. So, taking that scenario into account, and also my past experiences with love, if I feel at peace with what I've lived up to that point, I'll probably decide to continue my path alone, keeping the memories and moments of my past that will be enough to continue my life until its end.
¿Considerarías volver a casarte o tener otra pareja si eres viuda a los 71 años? ¿Por qué sí o por qué no?
Honestamente no sabría si estaré viva para esa edad, sabemos el presente pero no el futuro, pero considerando que estuviese ya en ese escenario, probablemente no tendría otro compañero, está bien estar sola por un tiempo. Viniendo de mi significa bastante porque yo a pesar de que amo estar sola y hacer cosas sola, cuando me enamoro de alguien suelo dar voluntariamente esa libertad, sin darme cuenta soy prisionera de mis propios sentimientos y mi cuerpo se vuelve dependiente de esos sentimientos, dejo de tener autonomía y no sé por qué soy así, realmente lo entrego todo, aún no he aprendido a ser diferente, lo cual tengo pendiente ir aprendiendo, ya que eso no es nada sano. Entonces teniendo en cuenta ese escenario y también mis experiencias pasadas con el amor, si ya me siento en paz con lo vivido hasta ese punto, probablemente decida seguir mi camino sola, quedando con los recuerdos y momentos de mi pasado que serán suficientes para continuar mi vida hasta su final.
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Black seems to dominate most people's closets due to its versatility. It's nice that you are making room for some more colors in your wardrobe :)
Nothing is wrong with being alone, especially when it's what you want and it makes you happy, and at peace :)
Black goes with every other color I believe, that would make it a dominant color in many wardrobes.
Awesome write up!
It's interesting how many people find black a dominant color ✨ Your honest reflection on love and autonomy, and choosing peace in solitude later in life is quite profound 🙌 It highlights how personal and valid different life paths are 💖
Your wardrobe looks pretty with the blacks and a few coloured wears, that's how I love mine too. !LADY
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