Ladies of Hive Community Contest #247 - New commitments in old age

By nainaztengra on 8/2/2025

@LadiesofHive Community Contest #248 questions for the week are: 1️⃣ What is the most dominant color in your wardrobe/closet? Was it a conscious choice, or did it just turn out that way over time? Feel free to give us a sneak peek! ~𝐀𝐍𝐃 / 𝐎𝐑 ~ 2️⃣ Would you consider remarrying or having another partner if you are a 71-year-old widow/widower? Why or why not?

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For a long time blue color dominated my wardrobe, somehow I would always get attracted to blue color clothes and end up buying them. They were in all shades and prints of blue, dark and light, but navy blue was again dominant in this also. And then black and white followed blue. At one point I did realize that I need to have more colors in my wardrobe, and after that every time I went shopping, I strictly told myself, no more blues, blacks and whites and I would go for other colors. Yet there are times when I do end up buying them. As of now my wardrobe looks very balanced with multi colors and I have no one dominant color in it. It's a conscious choice to turn it around from blue, black and white. It's always fun to experiment new colors and vibe in them.

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**If a widow, would I marry at 71?** 100% no, who wants headache at that age. That's not the age when I want to start tending tor pleasing someone. It would be almost the end years of my life and having a new partner at that age means again having to worry about fulfilling each others expectations.

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I can have a companion of convenience, who can be around when needed, but not a husband, for who I have to worry what he will eat and wear.....haha. No more new baggage at that age for sure. A companion is good, because there will be times when I may need someone to hold a hand and be by myside in some particular situations. And with my personality, my space is very important. I do not wish to have anyone new coming in to my space at that stage of life and interfering in my business.

Marriage always comes with expectations and there is commitment required in it and at the age of 71 I would not want to fulfill anyone's expectations or get into any new commitments. I would be happy to live all by myself on my terms and as I mentioned a companion would be good when needed. At that age, the person I would be marrying would be equally old, by any chance if he develops any health issues then for the rest of my life I will have to be miserably taking care of him. Who wants all of that headache at that age. Right?

Not only as a woman I have this thought, if I would have been a man, I would still have the same thoughts, at that stage in life I would not want to start all over again in a new relationship and at the same time it would be nice to have a companion of convenience.

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mahmud552's avatar @mahmud552 8/2/2025

Good luck to you for participating in this competition. You answered both questions very nicely. When it comes to clothes, I also like blue clothes. It is better not to get married after the age of seventy-one. You answered both questions very nicely. I agree with your answers.

nainaztengra's avatar @nainaztengra 8/3/2025

Thank you

ebonymama's avatar @ebonymama 8/2/2025

I buy your idea I wouldn't want to get married again at that age rather just be free and look for other things that will make me happy like you said too 🥰😍

nainaztengra's avatar @nainaztengra 8/3/2025

New responsibilities in that phase of life can get painful

princessluv's avatar @princessluv 8/2/2025

I actually really get this. At that age, peace of mind and personal space matter way more than starting over with someone new. A companion without the baggage is like the perfect balance for my life

nainaztengra's avatar @nainaztengra 8/3/2025

True, we need peace in that time and not having to worry about anything

ifarmgirl's avatar @ifarmgirl 8/2/2025

It's amazing how you shifted from blue to a closet of different shades/colors. I think we go through that phase at some point :)

100% no, who wants headache at that age. That's not the age when I want to start tending or pleasing someone.

I hear you. Just imagining getting married or having a new partner at that age makes me shake my head, lol!

nainaztengra's avatar @nainaztengra 8/3/2025

Ya, after a point you get bored of anything which becomes constant

cautiva-30's avatar @cautiva-30 8/2/2025

Keeping a balance in the colours in your wardrobe is great, especially the decision to try other colours and as you say, vibrate with them I agree with you, at that stage I wouldn't start a new relationship either, and yes, it would be nice to have a partner around when it's convenient, thanks for sharing your experiences my dear friend, !LADY !PIZZA

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nainaztengra's avatar @nainaztengra 8/3/2025

Life is colorful and so should our wardrobes be, why get stuck with limited colors

les90's avatar @les90 8/2/2025

Just like you if I noticed a single color in my wardrobe i also want to have some new colors 😉

Haha i agree that we can't take a headache to please someone at the age of 70 lol 😆

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nainaztengra's avatar @nainaztengra 8/3/2025

Freedom is very important at that age

les90's avatar @les90 8/3/2025

I agree with you !LADY

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mysteriousroad's avatar @mysteriousroad 8/2/2025

My wardrobe also dominated with blue and pink 😝 Blue and black is color which is always attractive 😀

nainaztengra's avatar @nainaztengra 8/3/2025

I guess most of us females end up with blues and blacks, because they are attractive colors

mysteriousroad's avatar @mysteriousroad 8/3/2025

Yeah ... And we look slim and fit in that colour 😝😝

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cryptofairy's avatar @cryptofairy 8/3/2025

Being very honest, marriage at any point is just a headache. You just have to bear all those tantrums and nonsense.!!