That Single Meal Fuels My Week and My Connections

By elopinky on 8/5/2025

Life lately feels like a constant sprint Between work the general hustle and trying to squeeze in some semblance of "me time" figuring out what to eat every single day can feel like the final exhausting hurdle. I used to stare into the kitchen most evening with that familiar dread Then I stumbled onto a concept that honestly changed my kitchen game the One Meal, Many dish Principle.

It’s not just about meal prep in the traditional, rigid sense It’s deeper It’s smarter It’s about leverage although one needs a good way of preserving these foods not too get back soon but here’s how it works for me now. I pick one solid versatile meal to cook intentionally on my less chaotic day usually Sunday. Think big flavour, good components. A massive pot of deeply spiced Jollof rice with rich hearty stew obe ata with serious depth with A giant pot of beans ewa riro style maybe Something that forms a fantastic base the Strategic Transformation is where the magic happens that one big pot isn’t just Sunday dinner. It’s the golden goose for the week

But the real dish isn't just about the food... it's about the connection.**

Here’s the beautiful side effect I didn’t fully anticipate Time Freedom Connection Time, Because I’m not slaving over every single meal from scratch, I suddenly have pockets of time I didn’t before. And guess what often fills that time, that Unexpected Visits Hearing a friend is nearby Hey swing by I just whipped up something quick from the big pot plenty to share! No stress or Longer Chats When a neighbour pops over I’m not anxiously watching the clock because dinner is burning. We can actually talk. The shared food becomes the backdrop for real conversation the gist Less Isolation Cooking one big meal somehow makes sharing feel more effortless. It fosters those impromptu moments of community that modern life often squeezes out. That pot of stew becomes an unspoken invitation.

My transformed meals aren't always Instagram worthy though sometimes they surprise me It’s about practicality meeting humanity It’s reclaiming time from the kitchen grind and redirecting that energy towards the people and conversations that nourish me in a different way.

It’s about recognising that one thoughtful cooking effort can fuel my body and my social life for days It removes the friction from sharing, making those moments of connection over food feel natural and easy again just like the best "gist" sessions always should.

So, if you're feeling the time crunch and missing those easy shared moments maybe give the "One Meal Many dish " approach a try. Pick your dish, cook it with love and then watch how it not only feeds you but also opens the door for the connections you might have been too busy for. It’s working wonders for me.