The Discussions and us ๐Ÿ™ƒ // week #269

By milagrosmhbl on 8/4/2025

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Hello friends of the community, I hope you had a great weekend, thank God it was! I'm over here today to join in again with the questions of the week and although there are several that I liked, I'm definitely going for this๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡.

**How do you and your partner recover from an argument? Have you ever let an argument get so out of control that it caused lasting problems between you? Explain.**
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Well, my husband and I have very different temperaments haha, so the arguments at some point in our relationship were quite frequent, sometimes even for nonsense, until we learned to take it more calmly, and understand that when we get upset about something, it's just an action or word that one of us said, but that does not change what we feel, we do not hate the forgiveness, but some behaviors! But my husband ALWAYS with his sense of humor manages to smooth things over๐Ÿ˜‚ although of course he also has his moments of total annoyance, however we always end up talking things over and in the end with his jokes we end up laughing again๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•

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Throughout 11 years of course there have been arguments that extend, I think one of the strongest left us 3 days without talking to each other, and were sequels the following months in which for the slightest thing we remembered what we said to each other in that discussion, until we said ENOUGH, and we never tried to hurt each other with that, and certainly has been the most healthy and intelligent way to lead our relationship๐Ÿ’• obviously this does not mean that we have not argued since then, but if we try to control ourselves much more, in the end we are a team, and we are always there for each other๐Ÿ’•

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Comments (1)

galenkp's avatar @galenkp 8/4/2025

I appreciate the effort you put into this post and that you continually support the #weekend-engagement concept.